(Editor’s note: A special thanks goes out to Ms. Ruth Tong for submitting two very well written, passionate and powerful stories around the value of Interdependence. Thank you for your contributions to our writing project!!!)
Interdependence, Part II
Written by: Ruth Tong, Intake Specialist, Child and Family Services
My father, Gabriel Okitkon of Koyuk, was a wonderful provider, a great hunter and fisherman. He was a very gentle, quiet person married to my outgoing mother. They were a great pair, and wonderful parents.
I always knew Dad provided for myself and six brothers and sisters, and also another family in Koyuk, a divorced mother and her four children. They’d come with us to our fish and berry camp down the coast from Koyuk every summer. What I didn’t know until much later was that he helped raise his four nephews and one niece after his brother and sister-in-law died of the epidemics that hit the coastal villages in mid-20th century.
In addition, my sister, Lois, who moved to the town of Unalakleet in the early 1980s, told me about one of our older cousins from Unalakleet, Laura. Laura would give Lois and her family Native food regularly – berries, dried fish, seal oil, greens, etc. Lois was very appreciative, but after a while, she told Laura she was getting embarrassed for taking so much. Laura told Lois, “I’m just trying to repay your father.”
Laura explained that both her parents died of illness when Laura was about 16, in the 1940s. She had four or five younger brothers and sisters. My father would trap various animals outside Koyuk and take the furs to the Unalakleet trading post. From the proceeds, he’d buy 50-pound bags of flour and sugar and cases of evaporated milk for Laura and her family. Laura said our father enabled her to keep her brothers and sisters with her, and Laura raised them.
Another of my older cousins, also named Laura, told me that my father was a “crack shot,” able to shoot a target with great accuracy. She said that he was one of the first hunters to kill a moose when moose first started appearing in the Seward Peninsula area. Dad was on a bluff near Koyuk when there was ice in the bay, and he shot a moose in the ear from 100 yards with a .22; it fell over, dead. I told my son, Kenneth, he got his shooting ability from my father. Kenny was on the University of Nevada Reno rifle team his first two years of college, on a rifle team scholarship. He used to enter adult rifle matches in the state of Hawaii starting at age 15, and win them against Marine and Army snipers. The snipers would ask me, how old is your son? When I’d say 15, they’d stalk off in disgust at having lost to a teenager.
An elder from Unalakleet, Gilbert, told me a few months ago that Dad was a fast runner too. When Gilbert was a boy, he and some other children were watching Dad approach by dog team from Koyuk. Dad’s sled got caught on a chunk of ice, so dad got off his sled to free it. The dogs bolted off, Dad ran after them, and caught the team. Gilbert said he never saw anyone run so fast. He exclaimed, “This was in the 1930s. We never heard of the Olympics in our part of the country. He could have beaten Jesse Owens!”
So, you can see the attributes that made my father a great hunter, provider, and how he was able to care for a great many others besides his immediate family. I think he was the epitome of the Native value of sharing and interdependence.